Mother's Day 2023

 



I could never find just one picture that captures what it is to be a mother. 
It is countless memories layered year by year. The intertwining of moments and days and years. 
It is three decades that flew into today and tomorrow.
 It is hopes realized and dreams achieved, and it is sometimes regrets and sorrow. 
It is wanting to hold on and needing to let go. 
It is skinned knees, weekend sports, diplomas, and weddings. 
It is wonder and beauty. 
It is God's design and I am deeply grateful for the privilege of being 
a Mom.



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